The relation to game should be clear. When you’re gaming a girl, you need two things to keep your inner game rock solid. First, you need to know that you’re good. You know that you can handle any stupid shit test that she throws your way. Second, you need to be carefree. This girl doesn’t matter, because there are a million other girls better than her. Your game is tight so you won’t make an ass of yourself, but you don’t care if she decides tonight is the night to have your penis slamming against her cervix. You deserve better than her.
Men, every woman who you’ve ever lost after the approach knows that you’re better than her. This follows logically from female hypergamy. On your initial approach, her primitive brain made a quick assessment. Is this guy better than me? The answer was yes, so she didn’t blow you out. Every girl of course has some threshold above which she won’t settle for a guy. If the girl is young and attractive, that threshold is considerably above her level of quality. The fact that she rejected you at some point later means you fell below this threshold, and undoubtedly she rationalized some reason why you weren’t good enough for her. But good enough for a girl really means significantly better than her. Somewhere hidden in the weak logical side of her brain is the understanding that you are indeed better than her. Keep this in your mind every time that you’re gaming a chick. That hot blond twirling her hair and shit testing you. The one you’d love to hear sobbing after lubeless anal. You’re better than her. Young man, you deserve better.