Tuesday, May 11, 2010

From Brad

Having theoretical knowledge of seduction is maybe 5% of the battle. The rest of it is the application of fundamentals. Here are the fundamentals, in order of importance:

  1. Social Courage ("balls")
  2. Identity
  3. Determination
  4. Frame control
  5. Body Language
  6. Voice Tone
  7. Discipline
  8. Positivity
  9. Image/Appearance
  10. Genuine Sexual Intentions

If you have all of these pieces in place, a little bit of theory will take you a long way.

Dominance Projection

Why is having balls so important? Because almost all the tactics and strategies in dating science are forms of dominance projection. If one is to succeed with women, dominance is the most important trait to possess. Dominance is a prerequisite to acceptance, attraction, trust, rapport, arousal, excitement, and compliance.

As coaches and gurus, we're trying to teach dominant behavior to men who are not very dominant to begin with.

Let's take a look at the various ways that dating science teaches dominance to non-dominant men. Here are some ideas from the internally consistent systems I mentioned earlier:

Mental Dominance
Frame Control
Humor
Cocky Funny
Confusion Game
Sexual Hypnosis

Social Dominance
Social Proof
Jealousy
Prizability
Backturns

Emotional Dominance
Rapport Building
Commonality Building
Sex
Freezeouts
Confusion Game
Sexual Persistence
Non-reactive behavior
Awareness Radius

Physical Dominance
Kino
Dancing
Sex
Fingering/Cunnilingus
Wrestling and Play-fighting

You can't learn any of these skills by merely reading about them. You must start by reading them, and then apply them over and over until it becomes natural to you.

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