7 Sins

Seven Deadly Sinns Of Attraction Notes

Sinn #1 Information Gluttony

Take 1 opener, run it ten times, record results

Small chunking is the only way to make improvements

Sinn #2 Topsy Turvy Learning

Taking short cuts will kill you in the long run

-Inconsistency

-Don't get ahead of yourself.

-When your trying to do stuff way ahead of your game, you will

miss applying them

-You learn things in the wrong order

Sinn #3 Arrogance

-Once I started to get results, I let them go to my head

-Started placing more pressure on myself

-All of a sudden approaching wasn't fun anymore

-I was resistant to good ideas, and perspectives cuz I thought

I knew it all

-BE OPENED MINDED TO NEW IDEAS

Sinn #4 Ignoring the internal aspect of pickup

-Internal change has to occur in order to deal with a new

reality

-Had a lot of beliefs that weren't realistic like you could get

every girl

-You need to work on your self-image, you emotional management, State control,

Your values, beliefs about women and relationships, your positivity.

Sinn #5 Making Excuses

-During my learning period I would overanalye things and talk myself out of approaches

with rational arguments that made perfect sense.

-But guess what, sometimes things go right no matter what!

-It's way easier to do the approach and get the momentary rejection thatn to agonize

and analyze

-Sometimes you're right, but better to just go in anyways. Never assume and make excuses.

-If your out to approach just do the approaches

-Smart people better at making excuses

-Million reasons not to approach but you only need 1 reason to approach.

Sinn #6 Not Qualifying for Compatability

-Yes, I was getting laid, but I was not meeting the type of women I wanted.

-I would date unethical women, personal problems, financial problems, emotional disorders,

drama, and more

-I was qualifying them to check off a box in a process rather than for what I really wanted

-You must develop the attitude that beauty if not enough

Write out a list of 10 things you want in a girl physically

Write out a list of 1O things emotionally

Write out a list of 10 things about her Personality

Sinn #7 Using Someone else's Gameplan

-Every person is diff, and is going to have unique

advantages and disadvantages when it comes to learning

pickup

-You have to construct a gameplan that will account for

your personal weaknessess and strengths and will ultimately

lead you to where you want to be

-Everyone needs to develop their own style, fashion, lifestyle

and distinct personality in order to reach their potential

Sinn #8 Dogma

Step #1 Fundamentals

*In order to get started you have to first become average. That

means you have to get "normalized" as I like to call it

*Fashion

*Body Language

*Vocal Tonality

*Expressiveness

*basic conversational skills with strangers

Fix the fundamentals first and you will see results.

Most guys are not at average

Step #2 Anxiety

*Social Anxiety: Caring What people think, feeling like people are judging you, being

worried about looks, glances, The opinions of strangers, ----robs you of your power

You end up thinking like a group of stangers want you to act.

*Sexual Anxiety: Guys who have problems with escalation, never pull the trigger--->comes

from a lack of education, lack of understanding, lack of the acceptance that were all sexual

beings.

*Social and Sexual Anxieties are the hidden root cause of ALMOST ALL "sticking points"

*Like working out you have to consistenely work on your social and sexual anxiety.

*You need to develop real world ways to work on expanding your comfort zone socially and

sexually in a social way. As opposed to certain antisocial drills out there.

*Anxiety is 100% of Inner Game

Step #3: Skillsets and Tools

*Socializing has a set of skills to it. Everything from starting a conversation to story-telling.

*There are also skillsets for Attraction, Escalation, Dates, Phone Game, Logistics, and more.

*There are also tools you can develop along the ay that will help you in your game: Things like

connections, assest, auxiliary (public speaking, yoga) skills.

*You have to build your skills after you have solid fundamentals and inner game or you'll have

problems.

YOU HAVE TO BUILD YOUR SKILLS AFTER YOU HAVE SOLID FUNDAMENTALS DOWN or you will have problems.

Step #4 Maximization and Minimization

*After you have a solid base of fundamentals and skills, it's time to personalize.

*You peronalize by maximizing your advantages and minimizing your disadvantages

*This can be done through things like venue selection, types of game you run, personality,

conveyance, fashion, and more.

PLAY THE GAMES THAT ARE RIGHT FOR YOU. PLAY THE ONE'S WERE YOU HAVE AN ADVANTAGE IN.

Step #5 Building A Supporting ECOsystem

*After you have started getting some success, you have to allow that success to build upon

itself.

*You want to figure out how to tweak your world to make it as easy as possible for you to meet, attract, and seduce beatufiul women

*This is were things like identity work, Large Scale Social Proof, Social Circle Game, And Lifestyle Design

Come in.

MAKE THE MISTAKE OF STARTING OVER AND OVER AGAIN AND AGAIN

Summing it all up

*In order to reach mastery as Quickly and painlessly as possible you need to avoid the 7 deadly sinns

*You also need to work on things in the specfic order of the path

*Remember Mastery is like buliding a house you can't put on the roof before the walls are up