Walking in
Walk in like you own the place. Smile; be loud, social, and fun.
Make sure your body language is suggestive of a dominant alpha male.
Start talking to people right away. If you're alone open a set, if you're with
friends stay engaged with them. At this point do everything in your power
to appear to be having a great time.
Settling in
You and your friends should stay active and social near the bar area...
but should not be getting wasted. You should create a little "social hot spot"
interacting with everyone who comes into your circle.
Stay on fun topics that naturally lend themselves to the inclusion of those
around you. Good, fun topics include, pop culture, dating, funny stories,
traveling...
Talking to girls
The easiest woman to begin talking to are those that are in your vicinity.
As soon as you spot a woman you would like to talk to break the ice. Do
not lurk or stare prior to talking. Try to use an engaging opener, but at
the very least say "hi" so that the door is open for re opening later.
Use an opener and hook her into conversation.
Wait until they've invested some interest into the conversation before locking
in. Give off the appearance that you could turn away at any minute.
Transitioning from Opener
If they are dwelling on the opener too long interrupt her. Use a cold read,
or mention something you notice about them.
Instead of asking questions... make statements "You look like a nurse"
or "I bet you're not from New Jersey"
At this point you should have already initiated simple kino like a touch
on the shoulder...
Building Attraction
Once normal conversation has begun its time to move towards building.
Begin teasing her. Use very playful negs. Give her a nickname.
Tell stories. Try to capture the emotion of the story as you tell it.
Withhold all compliments or indicators of interest.
Keep the conversation alive. Use routines if the conversation starts
getting dry.
Keep escalating the kino... a touch here, a touch there.
Moving Forward
Begin to qualify her "What is the single awesomest thing about you?"
Reward her if she invests in her answer, "That's cool. I like that" (high five)
Disqualify some of her answers "You're a cat person? We totally wouldn't
get along"
Use her answers to spring board into fun interesting stories of your own.
Get her to invest more by asking her to tell an interesting story, tell a stupid
joke, give you a massage, buy you a drink...
Begin initiating even more playful and intimate kino.
Use a comfort building routine
Going in for the kill
Isolate her from her friends
Go for the bounce to another location: e) after party, diner, a more
intimate bar
If you can't get the bounce go for kiss close
If you can't get the kiss close go for the number
Putting it all together
Once you understand the core concepts behind why you're doing,
it really is that simple to meet women at a bar/club.
You may also find that spending a night with a top pickup artist
at an intensive bootcamp might be your best way to learn.
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