More Things Not To Do

By Tyler Durden

1) FIDGETY MOVEMENTS AND TIGHT SHOULDERS AND TAKING YOURSELF TOO SERIOUSLY OR BEING TOO BUSINESSLIKE OR "SOPHISTICATED"

2) TALKING TOO FAST

3) LAUGHING AT YOUR OWN JOKES

4) SAYING "RIGHT" OR "YOU KNOW"

5) STANDING WITH LEGS NOT HALF A METER APART AT LEAST

6) TALKING TOO SOFTLY OR LOUD

7) MOVING YOUR HANDS AROUND WHILE YOU TALK

8) LEANING IN *or* 'PECKING'

9) FACING BODY/FEET TOWARDS HER BEFORE SHE EARNED IT

10) CHASING WHEN SHE WALKS AWAY

11) NOT WITHDRAWING (backturns, etc) WHEN SHE DOES SOMETHING THAT YOU WOULDN'T TOLERATE FROM AN UGLY GIRL OR A GUY

12) ANSWERING QUESTIONS TOO QUICKLY/EARLY

13) TURNING YOUR HEAD (OR "SNAPPING") WHEN YOU'RE ADDRESSED

14) GOING BACK TO A PRIOR THREAD THAT WAS INTERUPTED AT THE FIRST CHANCE/BREAK-IN-CONVO THAT YOU GET

15) NOT APPEARING MORE INTO YOUR WINGMAN THEN THE CHICK

16) TOO EAGER TO PAY ATTENTION - SAYING "what?" IF YOU CAN'T HEAR HER, PRIOR TO BEING IN RAPPORT

17) REPLYING WITH OVERLY THOUGHT-OUT OF LOGICAL ANSWERS OR WITH OVERLY CLEAR/FORMAL PRONUNCIATION

18) TAKING TOO MANY SENTENCES TO STATE AN IDEA THAT COULD BE STATED IN LESS SPACE

19) BEING BOLD INSTEAD OF CONFIDENT

20) OVERCOMPENSATING INSECURITIES = fear of not being accepted.

21) OVERCOMPENSATING FAILURE OR SHORTCOMINGS = fear of being judged

22) GOING BACKWARDS IN THE PICKUP ON HER SCHEDULE

23) WAITING FOR HER IF SHE LEAVES FOR ANY REASON (LIKE SAYS "I'M GOING TO THE WASHROOM, WAIT HERE)

24) OVERLY REMEMBERING DETAILS ABOUT PAST CONVOS

25) OFFERING TOO MUCH ABOUT YOURSELF TOO *EARLY*

A) Verbally: When offering good things about yourself, don't offer boring details. Say it with less detail, and it seems less eager.

B) Entertaining: you do this EARLY, it comes off as TRY-HARD

C) Wanting rapport with someone who didn't earn it:

D) Talking without feedback:

While on the subject of mindsets, I’ve benefitted a lot from the following ones too;
All girls love me
All girls are friendly
Your value is roughly equal to what you perceive your own value to be
All girls are, under the right circumstances, willing to go home with a guy the first night
I’m a value bringer, not a value taker
No girl is “too good for me”. I deserve the best and I’m not afraid to get it
It’s my job as a man to escalate and make things happen
Rejection is a learning experience