RELAX -
Women don't want a "super-hero" level performance.
In fact, from talking to thousands of women, I've learned
that women simply want a NORMAL guy - Who can talk
to her without being creepy or nervous.
And being relaxed by itself will get you more phone
numbers than any technique, frame-control or
state-control ever could.
You simply need to do three things, when you
approach her:
A) Make her feel comfortable
B) Smile and keep eye contact
C) Make asking for her number RELEVANT
Now, #3 is the only tough one, on that list.
And it's simple, really.
When you get her number, ask because it has something
to do with what you're talking about.
If you're talking about rock climbing, tell her you both
should go rock climbing, sometime.
She'll get excited, say yes... Then you ask for her
phone number.
Easy. Peasy.
2) BE EXPRESSIVE -
I think most men mess this up, and try to be "extroverted"
or "high energy"... When all you really need to do is
EXpress yourself.
Say what's on your mind. Unleash your inner-filter.
That's where advice like "Don't Give A Fuck" comes from,
however, it overlooks the fact that if you DON'T "give a
fuck" you WILL be "socially retarded."
And "socially retarded" means "you ain't gettin' laid"
Tell her you were nervous about meeting her...
Let her know you find the way she walks sexy...
And tell her you'd feel like you both missed a GREAT thing,
if you let her walk away today, without getting her
phone number.
Simply say the beautiful things you think about her.
Now, you COULD go too far with this, if you dont
follow #3:
3) BE DOMINANT -
Fuck AMOGing. Fuck frame control.
It's all bullshit. And it fucks with your head.
Simply be in control of yourself, and not let people
AROUND you - Decide WHO you are, or HOW
you should live your life.
Make your own decisions.
Take care of the people around you.
And control your thoughts: Only focus on the
positive in any given situation.
Take those 3 things to heart, and you'll live a
better, healthier and more exciting life.
(And women won't be able to get enough
of you)
So... Where's the "Game", you ask?
Simple:
But nothing works as effectively, as these
three things:
1) QUALIFICATION & COMPLIANCE
I put these together because they go hand-in-hand.
Because this is what men who are good with women
DO.
A) QUALIFY - Screen her. I'm dating an amazing
woman now, but before her, I've dated up to
9 girls at a time.
So why the hell would I want another girl in my
life... If she wasn't MUCH more kickass than
one of my girlfriends?
That's why you have to KNOW - Down to the details -
Exactly what you want in a girlfriend.
Grab a pen and paper. Be thorough.
And next time you meet a girl, make sure you
don't let her "coast by" on her looks, alone.
B) COMPLIANCE - Get her to contribute to your
life.
Again, an abundance mentality.
The girl I'm with now, for instance, is one of
the most generous, nurturing and loving
women I know.
(Even if she tries to hide it, sometimes ;)
So why would I go out of my way, to date
a girl who's all work - and no reward?
Get her to hold your drink, early on.
Have her buy you little things, here and
there.
Tell her to do things for you. Especially
in bed.
Be in command. Be dominant.
Be respectful... But be FIRM.
That duo ALONE will double the number
of women you get from "Hi" to "Sex" with.
2) PHYSICAL ESCALATION (PLANNED) -
Take a second to map out HOW you
touch a woman.
Because if you screw this up - You're DOA,
when it comes to having sex with her.
How you touch a woman... And how MUCH
you touch a woman DETERMINES whether
or not you two are having sex.
I won't go into the details right now, because
this is a retardedly long post already, so here's
what you need to know:
Arms, Torso & Legs, Face & Neck
3) STORYTELLING -
You can do so many amazing things in a
story, it's incredible.
You can:
* Use DHV (for MM) or pre-selection /
excitement for any other method
* Get HUGE amounts of compliance,
hoops and other little devices
* AND - You can flip them into role-plays
in order to do Virtual Compliance, Escalations,
and tons of other stuff.How I Learned Attraction
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